Top 8 Recommended Must-Read Books for Parents — Alpha Montessori School

A lot of what we do in the Montessori environment is mirrored and enhanced by what we do with the children at home. Freedom, accountability, purpose, and responsibility — these are attributes that drive learning. These attributes are acquired and exercised particularly at home.

With schools being shut and children spending time at home, we thought this would be a great time for parents to read about the Montessori approach. You can always access material on the Montessori philosophy and our blog is a great resource. We do believe that reading Maria Montessori’s books, for instance, will open your world to the many possibilities that exist in your child’s world. I think that these books will shape any parent’s perspective and encourage us to build a bond with our children.

Dr. Maria Montessori wrote, “Education is a natural process carried out by the child and is not acquired by listening to words but by experiences in the environment.” As you know, the environment at home can be a teacher too. Here are books for parents that show you how your child thrive s in a Montessori environment.

Best Montessori Books for Parents:

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Book: The Absorbent Mind

Author: Maria Montessori

I have met many Montessori parents who have told me that The Absorbent Mind is one of their favorite books on the Montessori philosophy, and I can see why. This book describes the child until he or she is six years old. The book outlines what makes children who belong in this age group so full of possibilities. They absorb so much around them and are hungry for experiences. They want to touch different textures, they want to see and hear different things. They want to climb and look everywhere, they truly are seekers.

So much of what is described in The Absorbent Mind will be appealing to parents because Maria Montessori talks about the ‘Link of Live,’ which is a child’s love for parents or the adults in the home . Children are constantly mirroring and imitating the adults around them. It is interesting that so much of what they absorb is both useful and useless, positive and negative. These are essential experiences and emotions, nonetheless, and shape them into complete individuals.

This book is an absolutely fascinating look into that wondrous mind that is whirring away in that little person who is sitting beside you. One of the things Montessori talks about in this book is also Horme , which is an idea that has often fascinated adults. When we are children, we are propelled by curiosity. Ever noticed how a baby won’t rest until he or she touches the quacking toy duck that is out of reach? Or how children try their best to climb out of a crib, devising all tricks in the book and not tiring of failing? They don’t care how many times they try to climb out, but their little feet slip down the wooden bars. For them, every attempt is a brand new step towards a new world. As an adult, I love and wish I had that curiosity in spades.

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Book: The Secret of Childhood

Author: Maria Montessori

There is a passage in The Secret of Childhood where Maria Montessori talks about how she teaches children in her Casa dei Bambini how to blow their noses with handkerchiefs. She expects them to start laughing when she blows her nose with care and as unobtrusively as possible. Instead, the children watch in rapt attention and when she is done, they applaud. Dr. Montessori was so stunned. The more she thought about their reaction, the more she was convinced that parents often scolded, chided, or nagged their children to blow their noses but never thought them to blow their noses They never demonstrated or exhibited it. Instead, they pinned hankies onto the children’s smocks, which showed a lack of trust in their abilities. “I have come to appreciate the fact that children have a deep sense of personal dignity,” she writes in this book. The book has been described as Dr. Montessori’s examination of a child’s personality with the precision of a scientist and the warmth of an educator. This book is a wonderful way to understand the human being you have brought into this world. We often brush aside their thoughts or worries and never try to understand their motives. This book is a lovely way to try and recognize your children as people with minds of their own. This is a lovely parenting book in its own right.

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Book: MONTESSORI, The Science Behind the Genius

Author: Angeline Stoll Lillard

Dr. Maria Montessori developed her methodology more than 100 years ago. Many parents have a valid question to ask of Montessori — is it still relevant and does it pass the test of modern-day developmental psychology? One should understand that psychology and our understanding of the human brain keep changing every few years.

Dr. Angeline Stoll Lillard, however, does think that Montessori’s practices stand up to modern-day psychology and its observations. Dr. Lillard is a Professor of Psychology at the University of Virginia. In this book, Dr. Lillard examines 8 of Maria Montessori’s ideas about a child’s learning. She then explains how contemporary neuroscience and research support each of these 8 principles. Some of these 8 philosophies that have been echoed and lauded in present-day education research ; the relation between movement and learning, working with mixed age-groups and peer-based learning. These are truly phenomenal ways of learning and growing.

This book talks about all the activities done in a Montessori environment, why they are done, and how they help your child. Is the Montessori method too rigid or is there more free-flowing purpose behind its structure? This book is a wonderful way to understand and demystify Montessori.

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Author: Paula Polk Lillard and Lynn Lillard Jessen

This book describes how parents can get their infants in their journey towards self-formation and self-realization. How do you design your baby’s environment so that he or she learns the most from it? What about food and eating habits? How do you encourage movement and exploration? What about language development? One of the best parts about this book is its description of a child’s ‘sensitive periods’ for learning skills. Most of us only focus on ‘sensitive periods’ for reading and writing but there are sensitive periods for learning crucial life skills, including toilet training. The book is a guide of sorts that is filled with practical examples and is a treat to read.

The book also has instances of how we can encourage independence and action with purpose. As parents, we have never been encouraged to look at a child’s purpose and the larger design when it comes to what they do and how they view the world.

Know other recommended books for parents by Montessori society at https://www.alphamontessoridfw.com/blog/top-8-recommended-must-read-books-for-parents/

Originally published at https://www.alphamontessoridfw.com on May 28, 2020.